To think a negative thought about someone or something because it has fault is worse than having the fault yourself.
“A prostitute and a saint lived in the same lane.
Each day, the prostitute would look at the saint and tell herself, oh, what a good man he is! He reads the Vedas and the Epics. He spends his time doing the God’s work and in prayer.
Meanwhile, the saint would look at the prostitute and shake his head at her profession and her lifestyle.
When they died, the prostitute went to heaven and the saint went to hell.
God said that sins and virtues were in the thinking, not in the doing.
Each got the afterlife they thought about for the other.
Don’t dwell on the mistakes of others, unrelated to your duty.
Thinking about them spoils your own karma, because it makes you angry, lazy or useless.
This is a story by Sri Ramakrishna Paramahansa.”This exerpt is from Illumination at Medium – https://medium.com/illumination/the-prostitute-and-the-saint-743baf82adb0
We must try to think well of everyone and everything. We need to empathize and at the same time fight.
I will tell you about a situation in my life.
I have heard about a group of people who think they are doing the right thing but deep down they know it’s wrong. And they justify it as if they have no choice but to do the wrong thing.
It’s not illegal but it’s wrong.
But there are some people who are so called “perfect”. They don’t have any material character flaws but they will demonize and criticise the people who are doing wrong.
They criticise the people who are doing wrong so much that they hate and fill their hearts and minds with poison.
Now let me ask you-
Is a person who does the harmless wrong things worse than a person who does nothing wrong but thinks the vilest thing in existence about other people?
Sooner or later the vile thoughts corrupt the latter so called “perfect” person.
I have also noticed it in myself that I sometimes feel insecure, and I tell myself that the other people doesn’t like me and want to see me. So I don’t make an attempt to see them.
Well what if I change my thoughts to a more positive one? What if I say to myself that there’s no scientific reason why they don’t like me. In fact I can’t prove that they don’t like me.
Then things change quite fast for the better.
I think that negativity in a person comes from selfishness. It’s the superiority complex and the non-acceptance of other people’s emotions and situations that causes ego to swell in a person.
“Mind precedes all mental states. Mind is their chief; they are all mind-wrought. If with an impure mind a person speaks or acts suffering follows him like the wheel that follows the foot of the ox.”The Dhammapada https://www.buddhanet.net/e-learning/buddhism/dp01.htm
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